Thursday, January 8, 2009

I'm sorry it's been so long....

This picture doesn't really have anything to do with my post - except that I wish I was at the beach! The past few months have been a blur. Nothing terrible has happened in my life but I've struggled badly with managing the day to day. I blame it mostly on my decision to go back to work at the beginning of the school year. I love what I do (assisting slower learners) but it takes a lot out of me. By the time I leave school, pick up my sons at their school, stop by the store or run whatever other errands need to be run and get home I'm exhausted. And there's still dinner to be made and laundry to be done and homework and, well, you get the ugly picture. Then try to mix in a little time to write LDS fiction books and you have true disaster. I'm not doing anything very well and I've got to figure out a better way.

My new plan is basically to try and put the Lord first and throwing off some of my responsibilities onto other family members. Both are easier said than done but that is my goal. And I'm so thankful for the opportunity to start a fresh year.

I have gotten a lot of questions about the Duty series (and I appreciate the interest). So I'll update everyone on my progress. I finished the sequel to Above and Beyond on Thanksgiving morning and emailed it to my wonderful editor Kirk Shaw just before leaving for the airport. I was in Utah for 5 days and had a good time signing with Michele Bell and Jennie Hansen, visiting with my daughter and her family and I even got to 'speak' to a book club in Orem (wonderful group of ladies). Anyway, I'm calling the third book Beyond Duty (and I'm kind of attached to the title so I hope they let me keep it) I use the term 'finished' loosely. I made pages of notes while on the plane about places in the book I know I need to revise. My plan was to do that the minute I got home. But when I got home I'd been gone so things were in a mess and I kept putting off my writing time. Then my computer crashed. It was the oddest - must unpleasant experience. One of my daughters was checking her email and it just froze and would not turn off. We unplugged it and got it off - but then couldn't get it back on. Fortunately my missionary son left his laptop with us - so we were able to hook it up but I've had a hard time getting used to using it. I know that sounds kind of crazy, but it's true. I guess you could say I had an emotional attachment to the old computer. I was thankful that I had emailed in my book - so I had a way to download it to the laptop. There is still a lot of important stuff on the old computer and when I get my royalty check in February - I plan to see if it can be repaired or if the info stored on it can be recovered. But for now it's just taking up space in my bedroom.

So things were crazy and I kept telling myself that as soon as school was out I'd be able to get ready for Christmas, clean the house for my daughter and her family to come stay with us for a week and generally get caught up on life. We got out of school on the 19th - not nearly enough time to do all that. And then I made poor decisions as far as time management (which my husband pointed out after the fact - so helpful). For instance, in the process of cleaning Emily's room for Josh and Laura to stay in while they were here - I had Clay take down the "Alabama Crimson Tide" border that had been up when the boys were in that room (some day I'll do a blog about how many times we've switched the kids' bedrooms and the number of paint colors on the walls). This was a painstaking process (that border glue was great). We ended up with thousands of tiny pieces of border on the floor - behind furniture - everywhere. I had expected it to pull off in big pieces and didn't anticipate the mess or the consumption of time. After we finally got it off - my husband pointed out that this time could have been spent better elsewhere since Josh and Laura didn't care if there was a border on the wall in their bedroom and after Emily goes to college in a few months one of the boys might move back into that room and might have liked to have the border. Oh well. On to the next bad decision. I have carpet in my living room. It's a light greenish color that shows dirt easily. The original idea was for us to stay out of the living room and thereby protect the carpet. But for years I've had my computer in here and we eat dinner at the dining room table often and so anyway, the carpet gets walked on a lot and it was filthy. I had been waiting to clean it until right before Christmas and somehow ended up on the day before Christmas Eve trying to rent a carpet cleaner. That was a process but finally we got home with it and Andy and Clay helped me clean the living room carpet, a rug in the den and the hallway. We took it back on Christmas Eve and the carpet looked much better - so I thought it had been a good investment of our time. But the weather was really wet and apparently we put more emphasis on spraying out the soapy water than we did on sucking it back up - so my carpets were wet for days. By Christmas night the carpet in the living room smelled terrible (thank goodness for Frebreeze) and the old wooden parque floor in our den was buckling up underneath the rug!!! It was like walking on a roller coaster. So in the end I would have been better off to forget the carpet cleaning all together. I could have just spread out blankets over the dirty carpet (I had to anyway since it was damp and smelly). But other than that we had a wonderful time over Christmas. Laura and Josh and Harrison arrived on Christmas Day and we had dinner and opened gifts. That Saturday my nephew (who left for a mission in Milan Italy yesterday) went through the Birmingham Temple so my three married kids and their spouses were all there with us and that was a great moment. Then on Sunday we all went up to Decatur to listen to Jonathan's 'leaving on a mission' talk. My kids made gingerbread houses and swapped coupons and recipes and reminisced and ate and ate and ate. It was hard to say goodbye, but I'm so thankful for the time we had together.

Now, I know you think I've forgotten that I started out talking about the final book in the Duty series. But I really am getting back around to that. I emailed with my editor yesterday and he said that the release date for Beyond Duty has been pushed back to May. I was a little disappointed - but the bad economy is effecting the publishing world like everything else and Covenant isn't going to publish as many books this year as they had planned - so I'm thankful that my book is coming out at all! And May isn't much later than March. Plus that gives me a little more time to make the revisions that I want to. So I have until next Thurs to revisit Beyond Duty and get it ready for my editor. Then it will come out in May. And I have a Haggerty book planned for the fall (I just need to time to finish it...)

I didn't renew my website but I'm trying to decide if I should. I don't have the time to keep it up (obviously...) but it was a good way to keep in touch and I'm afraid people will have a hard time finding this blog. So I'll decide about that soon.

And I got a lot of comforting emails about the incident with my son's mission website. I appreciate your compassion and support. It was just another one of those times when I didn't use good judgment. Not that anything I put on the website was bad - just not reverent or serious and I should have realized that missionary words and pictures have to be above reproach. Since I do have those judgment lapses about 100 times a day - its safer for me just to not post on his mission website anymore.

I'm sure there was more I meant to say - but I really hope to post more often so I don't get too far behind in the 'news'.


Amanda D said...

I'm new to your blog. Good luck on your new books (that's very exciting!) and I hope you are able to manage your time so you have peace in your life.

loveourboys said...

I'm new too, I LOVE YOUR BOOKS and am excited for more!

The Green Family said...

I thought all of that stuff was extremely entertaining.... why can't you just have fun!?
I would say that walking on the wood floor was more like walking on water because the wood rolled with you. It was fun

Your prettiest and funnest daughter

Julie said...

Oh, Bets! Nothing can ever be easy, can it? But we are making memories, and maybe some of them will be ones that we WANT to recall. :)

Love ya!


Wright Family said...

Thanks for updating everyone! I found this blog through your website so I hope it's OK that I check in from time to time. I promise I'm not a stalker.

I'm a huge fan of your books and a Birmingham native. I live in Utah now and was disappointed that you didn't come to Cache Valley last fall for a book signing - oh well, maybe next time. Can't wait to read the Beyond Duty and your next Haggerty book. The folks at Seagull Book in Logan get tired of me asking if they have your latest release.

Best of luck to you! Thanks for sharing your talent with us.


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Anna said...

Yay! I'm so glad to know you are done writing the 3rd book. Well, done with the initial writing. I know you have a family and work among a million other things, but I'm glad we got an update.

Love your books. And I think Hazardous series is my favorite of your books. Of course, the Haggerty ladies are always fun to read about too.

Jennie said...

I loved your post and was glad to hear about the goings on in your hectic life. It's been so long since I heard from you, I was beginning to worry about you. By the way I would have gotten rid of that Crimson Tide border too. Go Utes! Seriously, Betsy, I hope life slows down a little bit for you soon. I love your books and I'm looking forward to your next one, but please don't push yourself too hard.

Hilary said...

I just finished Above and Beyond and all I have to say is WOW. I can't wait for the next one. I love your books. Keep 'em coming.

The Ackers said...

Mom, nothing was as bad as you thought-we had fun being together:) If you need my help, let me know. Goodness knows, we've got to help you get that book out!
Love, Cathy

Lott said...

So excited to hear the book will be ready to purchase in May. I guess I can be patient like everyone else.

After reading about your busy, full-of-life, holiday "vacation", I could completely relate. My In-laws purchsed a carpet cleaner (Hoover All-Terrain...& I'm not getting anything for mentioning them) for us. We rented a big machine about a year ago & we experienced the long, smelly, damp period you did. This new machine is fantastic and is well worth the price.

Good luck in your new resolution. We all have the same amount of time in a day, it's how we use it that differentiates us.

Robinson Gang said...

I just wanted to say thank you for writing the books that completely engross me to the point that I can't put them down. Everything else takes a back seat while I finish your books. Thanks again!!!

Nancy said...

Betsy, I'm so glad I found you! You didn't know you were lost but you were to me. I had to get a new email address because of a hacker and I couldn't get a hold of you. I'm so sorry things were so hectic for you over Christmas etc. i hope they slow down for you. I'm sad Beyond Duty wont be out until May or June. Let's hope it's before your birthday. I've sent you my new email address at yahoo.Let me know if you got it. I've missed chatting with you through email. Your Friend, Nancy Golly